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Secluded Thoughts is a podcast for high-achieving women building authentic, fulfilling, and impactful lives where they build confidence in themselves beyond their achievements and live life on their own terms rather than living up to who others expect them to be.
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EPISODE 226
When people place you on a pedestal... (the cost of being a high achiever)
If you’re a high achiever, you may be dealing with what I call pedestal relationships — where people place you on a pedestal, expect you to always have it together, and then don’t show up for you the same way they show up for others. In this episode, I share how I realized this was happening in my life, the signs I ignored at first, and the changes I’m making so my relationships aren’t built on me being the “strong one” all the time.
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